Monday, February 18, 2008
Difficulty in life
Everybody have their own problems to face in their daily life include myself. The problem I am facing everyday is the most common problem like most of the people face, which is "Family Relationship". Since the day I can opened my mouth and say"mama, papa" until now, I always have a lot of conflicts with my parents most of the time. Every time I do something unique, they are always there to stop me and yell at me. The most common thing I am sure most of the college students have is having dinner outside. I think this is a very common thing, but my parent always yell at me "Don't go out at night and it's wasting money." The other thing is every time I buy something home like:" snakes, sodas and other kind of stuffs. They are always come to my room and start saying this and that. By the way, I love my parents very much. I try to obey them as much as I can. I try my best to help them to handle houseworks and I try very hard to be a good son as they want me to be. However, sometimes stuffs don't come as the way you think about. Things are always changing around. There is nothing happens today, but how about tomorrow? We never know what's going to happen next in our life. Obey or having my own Privacy? Family or Friends?
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I guess I have the same kind problems as you. My parents usually don’t allow me go out or back home after 8pm. As times goes by, after I took some evening class, my mother start to allow me back home around 10pm. After 3 years of college, sometimes my mom even allows me to go out with my friend till 11pm. I know your situation will get better as you get older or after you get more trust from them. And the most important thing is to let your parents to know who you friends are and who the people that you are going out with are.
It seems that we are very alike. I never eat at home. My parents are divorces and I live with my father. He is usually never home, so I don't get to share time with him. I spend some time with my mother on the weekends.. My advice is try to understand them. All they want is your own well being.. so have confidence with them and try to have some source of communication with them.
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